杳如黄鹤的随笔——只可追忆

康希牧师：与人相处的十条忠告

                                      

康希牧师：与人相处的十条忠告

10 commandments on getting along with other people

                

1. Communicate: The key of life / God create us with 2 ears and 1 mouth.

雅各书1:19 你们各人要快快的听，慢慢的说

2. Be interested in people in their world. By doing this is sharing your love.

腓立比书2:3 凡事不可结党，不可贪图虚浮的荣耀；只要存心谦卑，各人看别人比自己强

3. Make people feel important. Value people by what they have done

4. Smile when you meet people

5. Encourage people. Put faith in everyone.

6. Be longsuffering. Do not make judgment quickly. Take a long time to get angry. Give space to mistake.

7. Respect people. Don’t become over-familiar. Always respect people’s father.

8. Esteem others as better than yourself

9. Use people’s Names more than normal.

10. Be complimentary of people.

 

For kids: Honor parents.以弗所书 6:3  要孝敬父母，使你得福，在世长寿

For Parents: Spent time with kids. 以弗所书6:4  你们作父亲的，不要惹儿女的气，只要照著主的教训和警戒养育他们。

For wives: 歌罗西书 3:18  你们作妻子的，当顺服自己的丈夫，这在主里面是相宜的。

For husbands: 以弗所书 5:33  然而你们各人都当爱妻子，如同爱自己一样；妻子也当敬重她的丈夫。 

 

Who is a true friend? (1 Samuel 23:16-17)

1.       True friends strengthen your hand in God.

( 23:16 扫罗的儿子约拿单起身，往那树林里去见大卫，使他倚靠　神得以坚固)

2.       True friends create faith not fear.

(23:17 对他说：“不要惧怕，我父扫罗的手必不加害于你。)

3.       True friends celebrate your victory

(23:17你必作以色列的王，我也作你的宰相。这事我父扫罗知道了。)

4.       True friends equip you for the future.

(18:4约拿单从身上脱下外袍，给了大卫，又将战衣、刀、弓、腰带都给了他。)

【作者: 黄河浪】【访问统计:】【2006年02月19日 星期日 23:00】【注册】【打印】